Child/Cat Bonding

I have two children, both grown up now, and a grandson. I have never considered it too much of problem bringing an animal into the family. The problem arises with irresponsible pet owners/parents who view the animal addition as little more than a toy for their child to play with. Needless to say this is a recipe for disaster for both the child and the animal.

There are many who would recommend that the child be at least 6 years old before bringing a cat into the home. Whilst I can see justification for this, I feel that, providing due care and attention are given , the introduction of a kitten for a younger child can bring great benefits for both.

The child/cat should introduced to one another very slowly and gently. Sit your child on the floor and allow the cat to come into the room. Any sudden moves could startle the cat.
Allow your child to feed pussy some treats and stroke his/her coat very gently for a few minuets, then let the cat rest.

Get into a routine of do this each day until a mutual respect and bond has been built . Be careful with very young children. A swipe from a playful cat/kitten could make the child fearful, this could last for some time.

Include your child in the cleaning and feeding chores and set up times for play, showing your child how to do this safely, with care and importantly how to stop.
Be very careful of other children. Although you may have taught your children the correct way to treat animals many parents do not. Do not be afraid to gently inform the child and parent that the cat is not a toy.

As I have already stated, child/cat bonding should not be a problem if done correctly . To encourage a positive and respectful attitude towards animals bring great benefits to a child and , I feel sure, helps them to grow into better adults.